Stories from the Spectrum: Jack Howes
As the football season finally kicks off again, we catch up with Jack Howes, autistic man, football fan, and a Philanthropy and Partnerships Manager for our charity. Jack writes about his love of the beautiful game, and why football is so much more than just a sport for him...
Like billions across the Globe, my life features football at its core. I have spent a lifetime watching it, playing it, reading about it and talking about it. My life is richer for having football in it, though I am undoubtedly poorer for paying so much to watch it.
In my humble opinion, it is the best sport on Earth – glorious in its simplicity and egalitarian to its core. With a spherical object to act as a ball and a wall or two inanimate items to act as a goal, you can partake in the world’s most popular sport. Being autistic, it has allowed me to form relationships and forge friendships that otherwise would never have been possible.
Only one in a hundred are supposedly autistic. Yet, what’s amusing is to what extent football provides a life-defining structure and routine to day-to-day life for millions, most of whom are not autistic and may not even know what autism is. So many who attend matches will every week travel on the same train, drink in the same pub, consume the same half-time snack and sit in the same seat at the stadium year after year.
So much of the pleasure people derive from football is in its familiarity. People may experience problems at home, difficulties at work, be in the grip of health addiction and health problems. Football acts as an escape, an outlet where the struggles we all experience in life can briefly be forgotten. Football heals the wounds we acquire every day. For many, knowingly and unknowingly, it acts as therapy, even catharsis.
That’s why the recent stoppage of professional football has seemed so stark. Football, to the chagrin of those who dislike it, is *always* on. From August to May and increasingly in June and July, there is always football to watch, articles to read and podcasts to listen to. It has never been easier to saturate yourself in the game.
Football didn’t even stop in the World Wars, returning soldiers regularly playing friendlies in front of huge crowds. That it’s stopped because of Covid-19 indicates to just what extent our lives have been transformed since the outbreak and resultant lockdown.
Life has been increasingly scary over the last three months with the Coronavirus, mentally and physically, taking its toll. We have had to make huge sacrifices, miss out on the company of loved ones, cope with drastic changes in all aspects of daily life and in tragic cases, lost friends and relatives. At a time when more than ever we needed football to distract us from the pain and misery around us, it hasn’t been there.
Such talk may sound comical, laughable, even insulting. It’s only football, after all. Well paid sportsmen kicking a ball around seems utterly irrelevant compared to the grief so many have experienced in recent times. Day-to-day life will, to an unknown extent, never be the same again.
In times of such difficulty, what football brings is enjoyment, reassurance and a pleasant distraction, imbuing us with feelings of comfort and relief. Right now, we could all do with experiencing such feelings.
