Letters to the editor
Welcome to the July edition of the Spectrum
Although experts such as Prof. John Ashton are saying the pandemic has a long time to run yet before we can get back to “normal”, I judge from your comments that we should move away, for a while, from the subject of covid. So I’m asking for contributions about your hobbies and anything else you do to fill your time. That includes work, volunteering, and pets — indeed, anything you want to write about, it’s good to hear about everything that occupies you.
As I write this, we’ve just had our second warm night of the year and the garden is beginning to grow like it knows it has a lot of time to make up, due to the exceptionally cold and snowy spring. I hope to be spending more of my time “pottering in the garden” than I have for many years, as well as enjoying the flavours of home-grown vegetables, but the storms have set things back so far that that might have to wait for next year. Maybe I can manage a few experimental crops, but I doubt it will be many.
Another return is in the form of a comic strip — I ran a comic strip for a year about fifteen years ago, and it was popular, but nobody else wanted to draw one, so no more happened until this year. Visit our Art Gallery to read the second Aspie cat strip, which I hope you enjoy. Please let me know what you think, as that will determine whether it keeps running.
As I used to mention often, if you feel there’s something missing from the magazine, then the best way to change that is to write (or draw) that thing and send it in, as this magazine is created entirely by its readers — it is all your own hard work that we enjoy here, and the standard of contributions always amazes me.
the Editor
Letters to the editor
In our summer edition of the Spectrum, Michael writes about the positive side of social distancing. Meanwhile, Tony, responds to letters in our previous issue, and shares his thoughts on the strange world of social niceties!
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Hello,
I think that a lot of people will feel the same way I do, but don’t want to say it out loud.
While the pandemic has of course been awful, and I would never want to diminish the suffering some people have experienced, I have to say that lockdown has been so beneficial to my mental health.
I have been lucky. I am able to work from home, so did not have that stress, but add to that the lack of forced social contact with acquaintances and strangers, having clear rules about what we can and cannot do, not having to avoid social plans without making up excuses...it has been such a relief.
Of course, the world has to go back to “normal” at some point, but I am more anxious about that happening than I ever was about catching covid.
Thanks
Michael
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Dear Editor,
Expediency? Tell me about it. My wife tosses things down without a second thought, then complains she can’t find them again. Everything in its right place and orderly would solve this. She says I have a brilliant memory — no, I put things in places where I know I will find them again and arranged by related categories. This includes books by theme (cookbooks, yoga and New Age, self-help, fiction, and so on) and objects by usage (glasses and writing materials in drawers and so on).
Shortsighted thinking? Shallow waters don’t run deep — rushing around like a chicken without a head, blind to reality — how can you see the truth? Fools rush in where the autistic have more sense than to tread. Lacking introspection? How can you think, if you don’t slow down and listen to your own thoughts? It is all interlinked.
Michael (from edition 106, not Michael on this page), enlightened people: look but don’t speak — fools speak but don’t look. Wisdom is still and silent, so it can hear and see. Would you rather open your mouth and prove you were a fool, like the man at your church or keep your mouth shut and learn about life as you have?
James, we have no sexual identity as spirits. Like Paul said, we must remember that we are aliens here — strangers in a strange land.
In response to Paul’s piece about social gaffes and fear of accidentally treading on people’s toes:
I remember eating a hamburger at a barn dance in my youth and spilling fried onions on a French girl and if that wasn’t bad enough, I did it twice in a row. The amount of times I have opened my mouth on social media and had somebody jump down my throat, for what I thought was an innocent remark is nobody’s business. In fact I have just left Facebook because of it (two warnings in a fortnight and a twenty-four-hour ban, led me to think that I would be better off jumping before I got pushed).
What is the correct thing to do or say? I am seventy and still don’t know.
Loved Janine’s and James’s poems by the way.
Tony
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