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Stories from the Spectrum: Emily
Meet the multi-talented Emily, an autistic graphic designer, illustrator and blogger. As well as being autistic, Emily has diagnosis of Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD). You can admire her latest artwork by visiting her Instagram page here.
We chatted to Emily about her diagnosis journey, what life on the spectrum is like for her, where she draws her artistic inspiration from, and overcoming 'creative block'...
When were you diagnosed as autistic?
In 2018 I decided to pay for private therapy after having lots of different therapies throughout my teens and adulthood. I had tried Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and therapy sessions with CAMHS (child and adolescent mental health service, NHS, UK) Unfortunately I found these to be unhelpful.
In June 2018, aged 24, I was told by my private therapist at the time that she strongly felt I had a lot of autistic traits and she urged me to go forward for a diagnosis through my GP. My therapist felt unable to support me further, which was initially very difficult because I'd just started to really open up and trust my therapist more. I had always had a slight feeling I might be on the spectrum but I’d never really properly considered going forward for a diagnosis as it had never been picked up within my childhood. I did know I had sensory issues from a young age as an occupational therapist had assessed me aged eight and told me I had Sensory Processing Disorder.
I decided to go to my local doctors' surgery and discussed wanting to go forward for a diagnosis. I didn’t really get anywhere as my doctor wasn't very understanding. Undeterred, I went back to the surgery again and saw another doctor who was much more understanding. She agreed to refer me but pre-warned me that the waiting time suggested was nine months.
In the end I was on an NHS waiting list for 14 months and I had my autism assessment on 8 November 2019. I found out I was autistic aged 25.
What is being autistic like for you?
I still feel like I haven’t known that I’m autistic for that long! If I am honest, life is difficult and can be a struggle. There are good days of course - but sometimes the bad days outweigh them and I get frustrated. However, I am so much kinder to myself since my diagnosis because I know and understand my difficulties better now. There are days I wish to be 'normal', whatever that is! But I know I would never change who I am - being autistic and having SPD make me who I am. They make me unique and I believe they can also be real strengths.
My mood can change so quickly if I am overwhelmed by something as I cannot filter the information coming into my brain and I cannot regulate my emotions or understand and label my own feelings. I was told by my autism assessor that this is referred to as Alexithymia. This means day-to-day it can be quite tiring being out in the world and as a result I've become very good at masking (hiding my true thoughts and feelings) and I can only really drop that mask when I am in a safe environment like my home.
I hate change, love structure and routine and crave sameness every day. Obviously, life doesn't tend to pan out the same each day which is frustrating but I've become better at adapting to things.
My diagnosis was a really big thing for me internally and I honestly feel like I finally have some closure. Being able to say ‘I’m autistic’ just sums up all my difficulties into one understandable label or saying, which is really important to me. For so long I have been unable to summarise my difficulties quickly, always having to delve into the specifics of my sensory problems and social struggles.
Would you be able to tell us a bit more about Sensory Processing Disorder and how it impacts you?
I find it really difficult to process information I receive through my senses and this makes daily life a struggle. To me the world is ridiculously loud, bright, too strong smelling, crowded and just generally too much to handle. Sensory processing issues are a constant thing for me - my senses are ridiculously heightened at all times so even little things such as someone touching me on the shoulder/arm during a conversation or having to cope with different levels of noises and mixing scents can hugely overwhelm me.
I also get drained very quickly from any social interactions and can suffer something I refer to as 'sensory overwhelm' or a 'sensory hangover'. It's a term I’ve started to use to describe the state in which I am left after being in an overwhelming place, environment or situation. It describes the physically tired, mentally drained and totally spaced out feeling I have after an overwhelming social interaction. The feeling of a 'sensory hangover' will come over me immediately after an overwhelming thing and can last from a few minutes to even a day.
Sometimes I can hide my sensory problems and I am able to 'mask' or hide my struggles. Other times I can't and I erupt into a meltdown and have weird and unexplainable emotions. This is difficult because people don't expect a grown adult to have a meltdown, so it's something I can only really express in private. I have to bottle up how I feel when I'm out and about. Nowadays I try to be way more conscious of where I go, for how long, and what will be there that could affect me. I say ‘no’ more often to plans and activities now (although I do experience a lot of FOMO - 'fear of missing out') I know it’s for the better and I am way way happier not going and having a chilled night in. Sound is a huge issue for me and can really quickly bring on a sensory hangover – I feel physically drained and unable to process or compute what people are saying in noisy situations that I just prefer to remove myself from them entirely.
Your illustrations are fantastic. How did you get into graphic design and where do you draw inspiration from?
Thank you! I think I always enjoyed and looked forward to art classes throughout primary and secondary school. I studied both Art and Graphic Design at GCSE and then A Level. I remember deciding aged 16 that I wanted to become a graphic designer as graphic design became a real passion for me. I studied an Art Foundation Degree and after that I decided that I definitely wanted to study graphic design further and was accepted onto a BA (Hons) Graphic Design Degree and later went on to graduate with a first class degree!
I think I started doing illustrations because I am a really visual person and I find things come across better sometimes if they are written down and drawn. I think people can easily understand and relate to my little illustrations because I use a lot of iconography to symbolise what I am talking about and that makes things a lot clearer.
